April 2010
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Get To Know These Fascinating Love Facts
Francis K Githinji asked: Love has many dimensions and sometimes it is full of surprises and intrigues. The power and force of love and attraction can sometimes be completely illogical, unimaginably unfair, unusually cruel and completely beyond comprehension. They are just fascinating love facts which will make you know that falling in love is the next best thing for you. It induces an...
Don’t Ignore the Signs of Your Wife Cheating
John Mann asked: There are a lot of different signs that will become “visible” if your wife is cheating on you. Not all will need be present, mind you, but a number of these clues are gonna be there. I’m a 56 year old guy who has been around awhile. I’ve “been there – done that” if you will and I can tell you from experience that the signs are going to be there if she is, in fact, cheating...
The Law of Attraction and Relationship Issues
Kathy J. asked: Acknowledging The Correlation between The Law of Attraction And Relationship Issues: The law of attraction states that we are the creator of our world through the power of our thoughts. The thoughts we focus on set the intention of what we desire. Our feelings provide the creative fuel enabling us to draw it into our lives. With the combined power of our thoughts and...
Are You Responsible For Your Husband's Affairs...
Peter Davids asked: Why should a man go outside to get what he already has at home? This is very strange but a very true paradox in our society today. A man has a wife at home, but rather than have sex with her, he prefers to go outside to sleep with a prostitute or a girlfriend. What a great paradox of life. But on a closer look, there are reasons or factors why a man behaves this way. I...
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Learn How to Catch Online Cheaters If You Suspect...
Gillian Reynolds asked: The Internet has made it all too easy to have an affair. All anyone has to do is hop online, begin a chat and they can make a connection. Many online love affairs begin innocently enough. Two people may meet in a games room or they may belong to the same forum. Sparks fly between them and suddenly they are feeling real emotions for one another. One of the drawbacks...
Emotional Infidelity – A Serious Heartbreaker
Ruth Purple asked: So you strike up a friendship with another man through email, chat, text, or at the workplace, talking by the water cooler at break time. You don’t think there’s anything wrong with opening up and sharing intimate details about your life with this person even though you are married. You think that for as long as no sex is involved, it shouldn’t be suspect. Well, think...
Why Men Don’t Admit They Had Or Are Still Having...
Seeta Dean asked: I often get emails from frustrated women who tell me that they know that their boyfriends or husbands had or are having an affair. However, despite confronting them with your suspicions, outlining how things just aren’t adding up, and sometimes even offering up proof, the men will often continue to lie or deny that anything is wrong. They’ll call you paranoid, they’ll get...
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Internet Affairs Destroy Marriages
Ed Opperman asked: Do you suspect someone you love is having an Internet affair? Whether they are on a dating site, swinger site, a social network like MySpace or Facebook you can find them. Even if they are using a secret email account to visit escort service sites or porn cam sites every detail can be revealed. You may wonder how something like that is possible. After all isn’t the world...
March 2010
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A Serial Cheater – How Should She Handle It?
Mimi Tanner asked: Question: How do you handle a cheating husband or boyfriend? Answer: You use principles that apply to every relationship situation. Here’s a recent letter from one of my readers (I’ll change her name to “Sweetheart”): Dear Mimi, What do you do when your husband does not stop cheating? I left him for six months, and served him with divorce papers. He begged me not to...
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My Husband Had an Affair But Says He Still Loves...
Katie Lersch asked: Even typing the title in this article brings back emotion in me. I know first hand that if you are reading this article, you probably feel a good bit of pain, confusion, frustration, and an overwhelmingly strong sense of betrayal. When your husband has an affair, you’re whole world, and the life you thought you knew, can feel like it is falling apart. And, you wonder if...
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Marital Infidelity – The One Thing You Must...
Daryl Campbell asked:
In a study published by the Associated Press, roughly 17% of all divorces in the United States are due to marital infidelity. On the surface many people would consider that number minuscule; that is until they realize it represents millions of couples. Why some people commit fully to a relationship one minute and then throw it away the next by having an extramarital...
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Keep Him Interested–10 Remarkable Gestures He’ll...
Shakirah Brown asked: When it comes to relationships, most men have a tendency to lose interest awfully quick. Some may start to drift and invest most of their time in other activities (anything that doesn’t include you) and sometimes a man will stick around. You’ll get to be with him, just minus the spontaneous hugs and kisses. A lot of men view commitment to one woman as dreadful: seeing...
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Getting Over an Affair – Openness Heals Rifts
Ashby Ryans asked: Okay, so you found your husband or wife having an affair with someone else, and now you wonder what the steps in getting over an affair are. You just want the relationship to be whole and healthy again. You have forgiven each other, talked about what happened, or perhaps even consulted a relationship counselor. Whatever you’ve already done, it is important to take...
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Getting Past Infidelity – Why Forgiveness and...
Chris J Roberts asked: Betrayal by a loved on can be a terrible thing. However, it can be forgiven over time and depending on the circumstances. Those circumstances are usually the love felt for the person and the legitimate resolution to the matter. Should the love be deep and be returned the same way in return, then the betrayal, no matter what it is, is overwhelming thus making the road...
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Catch Your Boyfriend Cheating Before He Gets Her...
NJ Brighton asked: Has something switched in your husband or boyfriend’s demeanour? Is the man you fell in love with no longer that same boyfriend you once knew? Relationships can alter over time simply because that is the way life is. In that respect there are ups and downs yet a solid relationship should go forward not sideways. If there’s no more development, an increasing amount of bad times...
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What to Do If Your Partner is Cheating on You
Steff X asked: Although your very first instinct about being cheated on is to run a truck on the adulterers, there are things that if handled properly will benefit you, the infidelity victim ultimately. On the other hand, if you act on impulse and decided to have a emotional showdown with your spouse, you are actually sabotaging your chance of ever confirming the truth. Find out why here....
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Cheating Wives and Cheating Husbands Give...
Ruth Houston asked: Infidelity studies indicate that the percentage of cheating wives is fast approaching the percentage of cheating husbands wives. But the studies also reveal that men and women who are cheating on their spouses give different reasons to justify their extramarital affairs. The Top Reasons Men and Women Cheat The top 3 reasons men cheat all relate to sex. But sex is not...
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Cheating Wives and Cheating Husbands Give...
Ruth Houston asked: Infidelity studies indicate that the percentage of cheating wives is fast approaching the percentage of cheating husbands wives. But the studies also reveal that men and women who are cheating on their spouses give different reasons to justify their extramarital affairs. The Top Reasons Men and Women Cheat The top 3 reasons men cheat all relate to sex. But sex is not usually...
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Healing After an Affair – How to Survive...
Gillian Reynolds asked: Unfortunately many marriages today are impacted by one spouse committing adultery. Even though we tend to assume that it’s the husband who wanders outside the marriage vows more often, that’s not always the case. If you have been cheated on you are likely feeling an entire range of difficult emotions. Even with all the pain and frustration you are experiencing you may...
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Why Do Women Cheat On Partners?
Kenneth Snodin asked: Men and women cheat on their partners for different reasons. Men tend to cheat because they want more physical stimulation, while women generally have more psychological and emotional motives for cheating. Chief among these reasons is loneliness. Women often look to relationships with individuals other than their partners because emotional companionship is lacking in the...
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How to Restore Trust in Relationship After an...
J. Jeganathan asked: You have cheated. Okay, it just happened. Can you get your ex back even after an affair? There is chance if you manage to win the other party’s trust. Most people think it is the end of a relationship after an affair. It is not true. Even if trust, an vital element in relationship, has been lost it can be restored and re-developed again. An affair need not result in...
February 2010
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Is Online Dating Worth the Wait?
Cheyenne Ibit asked: It is natural for individual to hope for a relationship that is permanent and satisfying. In this modern technology, it is easier to find such desired relationship with the help of online dating websites. Looking for a future partner via website does not need much of your time. Little time of browsing the internet will definitely allow you to find someone who was interesting...
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Is It Okay For Her To Cheat After You Cheated On...
Teddy Shabba asked: In a moment of weakness or perhaps even pure lust, you cheated on the woman you are in a relationship with and for whatever reason she found out. Yet, instead of breaking up with you she said that she forgave you and that the two of you (mainly you) were going to do whatever it takes, in order to make the relationship work. Then again, maybe she didn’t say that instead she...
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Is My Man Cheating – Changes in Appearance For...
Jane A. Smith asked: He certainly is cheating: There are many poems that reveal the feelings of a broken hearted victim and the most eloquent story is of Narcissus from the Greek Mythology. Narcissus rejected the affection of those who loved him and one of his victims prayed for him to fall in love and never receive back love, as a way of retribution. What interesting is that the tale emphasizes...
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How to Forgive a Cheating Husband
Katie Lersch asked: If you’re found this article, I have no doubt of the pain that you are in right now. I personally know the shock, devastation, and wretched feelings of betrayal that come after you have learned that your husband is cheating. You feel like someone has punched you in the gut or pulled your legs out from under you. You alternate between not being able to believe it and being...
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If your in a long distance relationship are you...
cupcake26 asked: My boyfriend thinks that I should have phone sex with him when he wants and he should do it whenever I want because we dont get to see each other that often. He has never denied me but sometimes I deny him because i dont feel like it or whatever the reason may be. I know its not asking for a lot and he will do anything in the world for me but I dont want this to be the...
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Cheating Husband/Wife: 6 Keys to Know if You are...
Dr. Robert Huizenga asked: When you spy on your suspected cheating spouse, please make sure you consider all the possibilities you might encounter and whether you can handle them. Have you considered the many situations that spying might uncover? Can you imagine the worst thing you might find? Predict what your response will be to the worst-case scenario. Are you ready? Here are some specific...
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The Six Signs of a Marriage in Trouble
Marc Sandford asked: Is the specter of divorce in your future? You need to deal with this now rather than pretending that all is well. Avoiding or ignoring your problems won’t make them go away. Rather, they will only get worse. Even if you feel uncomfortable about addressing it, working on the problem now will be worth it in the long run. Because love is blind, you may not even recognize the...
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My Husband Had an Affair – How Do I Cope?
Katie Lersch asked:
Since I often write about surviving an affair or healing after being cheated on, I am often approached by women and asked how they can cope after they have learned about the affair. My heart really relates to these women because I know exactly how an affair can shake your world to the core. Not only are you dealing with betrayal, shock, and emotional fall out because the...
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What Constitutes Adultery?
Ryan Singler asked: When you ask yourself the question of what constitutes adultery, you will find that you receive a number of conflicting questions. The state of adultery is one that changes from culture to culture and even from state to state. In some cases, adultery can only be defined as sexual intercourse by a married person with a person who is not their spouse, while in other cases,...
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Cheating Boyfriend Test – Get the Answer to Your...
Jamie L. Davis asked: We live in a testing and quizzing society. High school students think that once they turn eighteen and get “out on their own,” the nasty world of test-taking will be over. Of course, we all know that is not true. We take tests to drive, to advance in our careers, to keep up professional certifications, and who knows what all. There are thousands of tests, but none is as...
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Exactly How Your Cheating Girlfriend is Getting...
Christina Caci asked: So, you think your girlfriend is cheating. But you can’t catch her! You know there is someone else. She’s evasive, but she covers it up with a lot of sweetness. When you say you suspect, she cools you down and tells you how much she loves you. She’s not unfaithful – you’re just paranoid. How does she keep getting away with it? Many times, the victim of a cheater will know...
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Top 20 Warning Signs of Infidelity and Surviving
Stephany Alexander asked: Warning signs of infidelity can take many forms but if you know which signs to look for, it can make this difficult investigative journey a bit easier and definitely less expensive than hiring a private investigator. Infidelity can take many forms but usually begins as emotional infidelity and then progresses to sexual infidelity. A person’s gut instinct is usually...
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Subtle Warning Signs of a Cheating Wife That...
Gillian Reynolds asked: They say that women have great intuition when it comes to their husbands, but the same is often true of men in regards to their wives. If you suspect that your wife has begun an adulterous affair you may be left feeling a whole host of emotions including anger and confusion. It can be agonizing to be left wondering whether or not she is indeed seeing another man. If you...
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What would you do if your partner caught you...
terrible17 asked: Would you say I am sick I need help, it was my evil twin who is trying to get back at me, or what would you come up with in a situation like cheating?
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The Secret to Having a Discreet Affair
Kenneth Stevens asked: If there is one thing that just about everyone who has an extramarital affair has in common, it is the desire to not get caught. No matter what your specific situation is, you want your affair to remain discreet. There can be so many repercussions when you are caught having an affair, and all of us have something to lose. The secret to having a discreet affair isn’t...
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Why Online Dating is a Savior to Our Generation
Francis K Githinji asked: Why the Dating Site And Not The ordinary dating approach? Many people demonize online dating but ask me and I will tell you that online dating is the most decent way of finding love. When you are buying something important you window shop all around the shopping malls looking for what you want and comparing prices. You get the best offer without compromising the...
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Relationship Advice: After the Affair – 5 Steps to...
Jeff Herring asked:
Affairs must be in the air. Affairs seem to be everywhere.
I know I have seen many accounts of them in my office in the last few months. One of the observations I have made is that every single one of us is vulnerable.
A popular myth is that an affair always ends the marriage.
While some marriages do end when there is a discreet affair, the reality is that any couple can...
Tricks To Confronting A Cheating Husband
Tim Shank asked: It is a difficult thing to confront a cheating husband. Perhaps you have been suspicious about your husband’s extramarital activities for quite some time, and perhaps you are still just running on suspicions. It might also be that you have just had enough and are ready to take the bull by the horns, so to speak, and to have it out with him once and for all. It’s a demeaning...
January 2010
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Affair Detector →
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Know If You’re Dating a Married Man
Many men cheat on their wives, but only a few would actually leave the marriage. With the boom in internet dating sites, there’s even more opportunities to meet other women and be elusive. The dating world is a jungle, and a woman can’t be too sure if that delightfully charming guy who responded to your ad is married or not. Married men sneaking around can be wonderfully thoughtful and...
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“people change..and so as the heart..”
– affair detector