Affair Detector

John Mann asked:

There are a lot of different signs that will become “visible” if your wife is cheating on you. Not all will need be present, mind you, but a number of these clues are gonna be there.

I’m a 56 year old guy who has been around awhile. I’ve “been there – done that” if you will and I can tell you from experience that the signs are going to be there if she is, in fact, cheating on you. You just won’t want to see them if you’re still in love with the lady.

You’re might possibly be blinded by your feelings for her and be in a state of denial that you’ll remain in until the evidence is just too great to ignore.

The thing you absolutely have to realize is that if something doesn’t feel right, it doesn’t mean you’re paranoid. People do stray … unfortunately, it can happen to you. If you feel suspicious, just make yourself open your eyes and look hard to see that true facts.

Is she more secretive than she used to be? Maybe she isn’t sharing the details of her daily life with you anymore because she’s got something to hide.

Does she go out with her friends more often than she used to? This could obviously be a cover-up for the time she’s spending with your replacement.

Does she seem to need you less? Maybe she just doesn’t need your help or input like she used to because she’s getting what she needs elsewhere.

Is she dressing nicer? Maybe someone else is appreciating her more or she just wants to look better for her new love.

Is she being nicer to you but in a way that seems out of character or rehearsed? She could quite possibly be feeling guilty and covering it up with a “veneer of nice” towards you.

All of these can be symptoms of the signs of a cheating wife.